When we vulva owners hear orgasm, we might generally think of the most common kind—clitoral stimulation. Clitoral orgasms are a fabulous way to experience an orgasm, but did you know they're not even close to being the only way to reach orgasm? Continue reading
Sexual health and hygiene and Better Sex advice
Sexual health and hygiene and Better Sex advice, tips and tricks from Sinful Thrills.
Dear How to Do It, I’m in a relationship that has been wonderful up until this point. My issues are with Snapchat, and how often my boyfriend is on it, as well as his behaviour about the app when I’m within distance of seeing what’s on his phone. Continue reading
My husband and I have been married for more than 25 years and have had what I consider a great marriage overall. Couple of kids, couple of cats, house, etc. Nothing out of the ordinary. And that (nothing out of the ordinary) largely describes our sex life too. It’s been kind and loving, but not particularly kinky, or even outside of oral and vaginal sex. Continue reading
Two-thirds of people who identify as gay or lesbian admit to having faked an orgasm during sex, according to a new survey. Continue reading
When we talk about sex, sometimes it seems like all we talk about is orgasms: clitoral orgasms, G-spot orgasms, blended orgasms, squirting orgasms… but what if you can’t orgasm? Many women have difficulty reaching orgasm, and some even find it impossible. Research indicates that around 10 to 15% of cis women are anorgasmic, meaning that they can’t orgasm (some people prefer the term pre-orgasmic). Many more women can orgasm, but only very rarely. Continue reading
IT'S the age-old question that's bothered men since the dawn of time - what is the perfect penis size? Well, wonder no longer because research may have finally put the issue to rest. Continue reading
If you are worried that you finish too quickly in bed, you're not alone — around one in three men in the US report having issues with premature ejaculation. It's unclear why this happens, but scientists think it's a combination of psychological and biological factors. Continue reading
My girlfriend (mid-40s) and I (50-year-old man) have been dating for 10 years: “Long-distance for five, living together for four, and one year in the middle living in the same city.” Our sex life was always great, but it has started to slow down as my age creeps up on me. In the months before COVID, it slowed even more as I was dealing with some unrelated health issues. But then COVID hit. I work in health care, and between that and her already near-hypochondria, our sex life came to a halt. Continue reading
"I'm too self-conscious to orgasm" As a fat woman, I feel like the world wants me to hate myself - especially during sex.
As a fat woman, I've always felt like the world wants me to hate myself - especially during sex. From how self-conscious I can get while on top, to how my thighs always seem to get in the way. Continue reading